the non date with a mate with whom id like to mate
bloody Dr Seuss, ever since i watched the cat in the hat the other day ive been trying to rhyme. anyway thats another story. tonight after work renae and i went out, out to the speedway. not the most romantic place i admit, but i be on the understanding that we only friends, friends go to speedway, friends watch stuff get bashed up, choice! but thats what left me thinking. is there some sorta sign you got to wait for before your allowed to try make a move? i mean i was sittin next to her all night, and could have easily misplaced a hand, but when is it appropriate? i’m confused, help anyone?
this is renae by the way:
28
Dec
My advice to you dear boy is to go for the straight up approach. Girls hate the sly sneaky slip yer hand onto her bullshit, thats sleazy and tacky. Just be upfront, grab her hand, wrap yer arm around her, give her lots of hugs. And talk to her, if you want to kiss her then just ask her if its ok first. (being told no is way less embarrassing than a slap) As for when is it appropriate, anytime you feel comfortable really.
Yeah just be straight up, be respectful of her boundaries and if she shags before the first date on on the 1st date, shes a skank and not worth it.
Sounds like these 2 have had loads of dates, so shes not likely to be a skank!! Try giving signs yourself Slink instead of waiting for them. Or better yet SPEAK UP MAN. Shes not a mind reader.
I’m going to ignore the second sentence in Mandz’ first post (it would really drag down the tone of the post), but I completely agree with the rest of it and wit Laz – be straight up. I’ve tried the subtle and the mind hypnosis on people and it is so much more rewarding just coming out and saying how you feel or what you want. And who could say no to a Slink who buys cute cuddly unicorns?
BTW, does Renae know about this site?
gem: ah no, mandz: yeah she sorta is, in a way i sorta can read hers too, and laz: defiantly not a skank, an definatly worth it, and all: i did sorta speak up on the beach this morning, and got reminded, that it wouldnt work while we both in different towns. gutted.
Smart cookie you got there. And dont ignore my advice (second sentence 1st comment) girls really do hate slimy sleazy tactics. Gem can speak for herself ofcourse..but no girls that I know would ever go for that.
And dude, did you post her pic on the website without her consent? If someone did that to me I would be totally pissed off at them..not to mention their chances would go plummeting down to 0..but thats just my view, other girls might like that sort of attention.
its all good as long as shes not a skank.
I tried the long distance thing and it didnt work out, also didnt work out when i closed the gap and lived with her. LAME.
You guys could be great mates for life. Do you really want to mess it up by getting romantically involved? Some of my best mates are men, and I would never consider getting jiggy with them, never. Friendship is important.
Mandz, I was more referring to the missing word/punctuation which made your second sentence sound really wrong ‘Girls hate the sly sneaky slip yer hand onto her bullshit’ (maybe it’s just my mind that is in the gutter). I certainly agree with what you were saying – just found it funny the way you wrote it
I agree about the photo – I’d be pissed off if someone posted a photo of me on the internet without telling me
Yeah look at the mung shot that admin guy put up for your Avatar without asking you